-you are not doing this for attention
-you are not just “keeping your options open” by labeling yourself as bi
-you can call yourself a lesbian if you feel like you want to be
-you can not call yourself anything
-you don’t have to come out
-you are not doing this for attention
-your attraction to girls is valid even if you cant pinpoint gay moments in your childhood
-your attraction to girls is valid even if you have never had a crush on a girl
-you are not “too young” to be thinking about this. people say that because f/f relationships are hypersexualized in our society. its ok to dream about having a wife one day and cuddling on the couch with her and adopting a dog together
-you are not doing this for attention